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COMPUTER SYNDROME - ONE OF THE REASONS OF DIVORCES

Real or virtual relations, chats, games - and the union breaks up. In America is a danger number one. This phenomenon gains the increasing distribution and to Italy., than one thousand incorrectly squeezed out tubes of a tooth-paste, the destroyer of families of a modern epoch who is at our place became more dangerous. It is the computer, employment with which seem absolutely harmless, but actually it has turned to the mine of the slowed down action menacing to marriage.

 

British Sunday Times cites data of the American lawyers by which words рс became the biggest threat to conjugal ties last 30 years. The American academy of the lawyers specialising on marriage affairs, has published the special brochure in which instructions on neutralisation of the opponent who is in the next room contain.

 

Wives to three o'clock in the morning send messages by e-mail, ignoring a matrimonial bed, young husbands tirelessly download music from the Internet or spend night in the world of imaginations of virtual games among эльфов and magicians. Or in the world of red lanterns on pornosites.

 

Two thirds of American lawyers on family to questions confirm, that even more often the computer appears the reason of crisis of a married couple. And if monetary disputes or problems remain the reason of divorces in 50 % of cases the Internet promotes petty intrigues and предательствам. Statistical data testify that in 68 % of cases of divorces because of the computer incorrect spouses have found the lover thanks to the Internet.

 

And in Italy рс has taken a place of the mother-in-law in relations between the husband and the wife. The psychiatrist from the Gregorian university of Rome Тонино Кантельми notices, that last time at it was at least 10 cases when people endowed marriage for the sake of virtual relations on the Internet.

 

"The young woman spent all time, travelling on a network, there it has found friends and admirers. Thus it did not meet one of them. But she has ceased to pay attention to own husband". Professor Kantelmi also underlines, that more often men, habitues of pornosites become victims of the Internet.

 

The woman react to indifference of the partner, trying to find a consolation in virtual embraces. "On 10 new married couples it is necessary on the average three, found each other through the Internet". Among clients of the psychiatrist there are those who prefers to communicate others "интернавтами". "One my patient periodically is locked at home with 6-7 friends, everyone has a computer, and they together spend time on chats. For four days on end. It is called Ian party.

 

According to lawyer Maretty Skokki, flight in the Internet becomes search of missing emotions. According to Sunday Times, 10 million persons come on musical site Kazaa and spend till 30 o'clock in a week behind downloading of popular songs.

 

In the Great Britain about one million 20-30-летних young men wait for days off to play in Sony Everquest. Here so affairs are. And Egypt the wife who has lost patience has addressed in court, because her husband for 14 hours in
Day spent behind the computer. She has demanded divorce.

 

 

Джованна Кавалли

 

6.03.04